There are two sorts of relationship: Face-to-face. And back-to-back. I could be interested in what I can get from you. Then we are back-to-back. Or I could be interested in you. Then we are face-to-face. Even if I cared for you because I love the way you are, we are still not face-to-face. Because the-way-you-are is not you. Even if I cared for you because you are my parent or my child, we are still not truly face-to-face. Because there is more to you than being a parent or a child. If so, only with the One who knows...